‘Why Women Kill’ Review｜What Breaks Our hearts Cannot Be Shared
What is real life? People are good at hiding their sorrows and tears. Sorrows can be shared if it is not terribly heart-breaking or embarrassing, even it is not our fault. We hate bad news because we can’t bear people's judgment. It’s the judgment that hurts more than the event itself.
What breaks our hearts cannot be shared. Because it burns our dignity and it makes us so powerless, or even pitiful every time we repeat the sad story. By doing so, it put us in a vulnerable position, waiting to be judged and it’s much like reliving the disaster as we recall the traumatic event.
The worst part is that we sense the jugment. Their glances says “The righteous poeple will not expeirence something like this.” People know nothing about “God’s discipline.” People have no time for Bible-reading but partying. People stop believing God and God abhors wickedness. And Pride is identified as the capital sin in the Bible. But, who cares, when the church is rife with corruption and scandals. But I do care and I am dread of making any mistakes every single day.
I have seen people who lost his wife and he withered shortly after her death. He is super rich and he never gets himself another woman. I have seen people who got liver cancer at a young age and fully recovered and learned to enjoy life more and become healthier than ever. I have seen people who had a serious car accident right on the wedding day and lost one of his eyes and decades later he becomes a grandfather who has grandsons.
What do I think of life? Trust cannot be easily earned, so as respect. Hopes are hard to clinch when we experience too many disappointments successively.
It’s easy to build connections. But strong connections are rare. I have seen women betray their friendship for the sake of love or jealousy too many times.
That’s why people always trying so hard to post the good moments on FB. They want to be envied or be respected. Because most people tend to believe that only the good-hearted ones will have a good life. (According to the Bible, every deed and every word will be recorded)
There was a time that I wondered whether I was terribly sick and I found that I had no strong desire to get recovered or take any treatment. And I found that I was the one who did not have a strong desire to stay alive nor end my life either. I was alive but I couldn’t do anything that I really wanted to and I couldn’t meet the ones who I really miss. Life is all about duties and responsibilities. Life is no fun. Life is loneliness. After witnessing so many betrayals and the darkness of human beings…And I realized that I need a vacation again, a vacation to find hope back again, a vacation to believe the goodness of life again.
The Bible says” Keep no record of the wrongs.” Bad memories are not good for our brains. But, history repeats if we fail to learn from the past.
Tell me, if you were the one who once suffered. How do you find hope again to believe the goodness of life?
